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Hi, and welcome to the Scary Goals Club podcast. I'm your host, Hazel Robertson. And. Here I am Back podcast again. If you listen to last week's episode, [00:01:00] I recorded it just for this one. I think I got a bit of a sugar dip at the end, and so I've gone and had another couple of chocolates, which have been delightful.
I'm feeling good. I'm good for like another 20 minutes until it like peers off again. Anyway, I hope you're having an amazing week. Whatever you're doing. And on today's episode, I just wanted to talk through another major life change that has happened over the last few months, as well as like finding our dream house and like moving into it and being here.
And that is the I am pregnant, which if you have been following the podcast for a while, or if you haven't and you wanna listen to like a specific episode about. Some of the challenges that I have been through. If you don't want to like, that's all good. I'll, I won't really go into much detail here, but what was the podcast episode?
I probably should have got it before I even, before I even got on here and started talking about it. I [00:02:00] think it was called like what actually happened at New Year? I basically the start of 2025. Was going amazingly on New Year's Eve and then it went not so amazingly. And after like basically announcing to her family they were pregnant like at Christmas and like having this whole celebration.
And then I ended up miscarrying just on like New Year's Eve and so started 2025 being like, this was not how I thought 2025 was gonna go. It was like, oh, and then had another two miscarriages after that. So it has been. Quite a start to the year. It has been quite a rough start to the year in terms of like, again, having that vision, having something that like I knew that I wanted, I knew that we wanted, and yet life just not kind of going that way.
And it's the same. I guess it's the same with any goal. I feel like pregnancy feels a little bit different 'cause there's elements you can control, but obviously elements you just literally can't. And it's down to biology and it's down to, there's so [00:03:00] many different factors that can play that you can do everything that you can.
And there's still gonna be Mother Nature doing her thing and it's like letting go a little bit and like surrendering to that, which there's been a lot of that. And just to have imagined that now in like October, early October. I'd be like almost, I'm trying to think what that is. Almost six months pregnant is, especially with like where I was the first, like quarter of the year is just, it's crazy.
It was like my vision and what I was imagining and yet I almost couldn't even imagine. It was like, it's just not happening. And so I just, yeah. I just wanted to share like first of all. That's what it is. If you wanna see, hang on, I'll give you a little, there's a little, like, there's a little bump there and all this stuff's still being unpacked.
Oh my gosh. Down here we have like, we were unpacking them, you know, like all the different cables and stuff. This, it must have been in the other office just like [00:04:00] stuffed away somewhere. And it's like all these like really old USBs that don't even like, literally don't even exist anymore. Like I don't think we even own anything that we connect to them.
We have like 10 of 10 of like all these different like random connections. It's like, okay, these can all be recycled. Anyway, I digress. So it just, it just feels like, I guess kinda like the house thing. It's like this is something I have like, so wanted and at so many points would just like, could not almost like not imagine it happening.
Even though I was leaning into the visualization and even though I was just like kept, like, that has been probably the biggest thing that has kept me going through all the loss, like earlier this year. Is, I guess two things. One is just processing that loss and actually giving myself the space to grieve, to cry to like, 'cause there's all the physical changes and, and the like hormone stuff as well as [00:05:00] like all the, the physical stuff of like miscarrying and then also the emotional stuff as well of being like, right, this like due date that I had and this.
Timeline that I had in my mind and this vision that I had has now shifted in some way. And like letting go of that and just processing all of that as well. And I think certainly for me, the hardest bit has been almost this like, it's like a, it's like grieving the what could have been there was actually never gonna be like, it was never gonna happen because.
Nature did her thing. But it's like, I didn't know that at that time. And it's, it's like had this like, it was like this is how it's gonna be and this is the time thing, that timeline that things are gonna work out. And then almost letting go of that and having to be like, this isn't, you thought it would be this way and it's not gonna be that way anymore.
So it's grieving that, like loss of a future that you had imagined. I guess that's, that's been like, I guess the hardest part. But for me, the thing that's just like kept me going even through. [00:06:00] All of that, like heartache, all of the hormone shifts, which has been wild in itself of like being pregnant, then not being pregnant, then like being pregnant again.
Then not being pregnant, being pregnant again. Just especially like the early stages of pregnancy. I've been so tired and get so ill that it's like going through that, which has been four times long. This year has just also been I, it's like such a head fucked, really, of just. Not feeling myself, not being able to like go on these big runs.
I used to, 'cause I'm just like so knackered. There's been all of that stuff as well with all the loss. And then of course when I was actually pregnant it was like, it's all good. Like here I am, things are happening. I don't care about not being able to go and run. I don't care about being tired. Like it's all good.
And so there's been a lot and anyway, but the thing that's like kept me going with all of that is just. Having like the clearest vision that I'm like, this is, this is happening in our future. Like I know that this is happening. [00:07:00] Maybe not on the timeframe. I thought maybe not on how I thought things would go.
So I guess if there's some goal that you're like working towards that is just not, feels like it's just not happening, there's setbacks, there's whatever is like going on, just holding onto that vision. And it's almost like when you have the vision and you can imagine it and you can zoom out a bit in terms of, and like almost like let go of the timeframe.
'cause sometimes we're like, it has to happen in this way and then this timeframe. It, it might not and it probably won't, but like it's like letting go of the timeframe. Kind of surrendering a little bit to that. Like obviously you do what you can to influence it, but sometimes things are just going to happen in a different way than you can expect and like in a different timeframe than you can expect.
But still the vision doesn't change. So it's like the vision is there, all of the way to get there and like the timeframe and how it actually goes, that is gonna be different. It always is gonna be different, which is why even this is like a slight tangent, but like. When I'm coaching clients about, you know, they're like, I didn't get this [00:08:00] thing done in this timeframe.
And like the plan changed and this, it's like a plan is always made up, a timeframe, a timescale of like estimating how long someone's gonna take. It's always made up like you do your best guess for sure, but it's always just a guess. It's the same with anything in life. We have this idea of like, this is the timeline and this is how things are gonna be, and it's like.
It. So like you can probably look back in your life and be like, so many things did not happen in the timeframe, but like thinking where you are now and like the amazing things you have in your life, there'll be so many reasons why it's like, oh, I'm so glad it didn't work out the way it did. Or like the way I thought it had to, because here we are.
Like I think about that with my son. It's like I had a couple miscarriages before him and you know, at the time it was just like, it felt even harder. 'cause I was like, I dunno if I'm gonna even be able to have a kid. Like what's gonna happen? And then. Just like now, I'm like, I, now that I'm grateful for them, that's maybe like not quite the right word, but like I'm so glad that things happen the way they happen because I get to hang out with him and he's literally like [00:09:00] the coolest person I know and so interesting.
So Wise, so funny. So just like his own person and I would never got to meet him if things had happened, how I think they quote unquote should have, I wouldn't have known any difference, of course, but like now that I've met him, I'm like, I can't imagine. Having anyone else like in my life that's like, would be my son, like that.
So it's always like when you actually look back, you can imagine okay things, it's like the thing I I come back to that really helps me and has helped me is like, it was always supposed to happen this way. Like it was always, we're gonna look back and be like, oh, it was always gonna happen this way. Just in the moment we think it quote unquote should happen a different way or is gonna happen a different way.
And when we get really attached to timeline and like how things are gonna happen. Then it can feel really hard when it doesn't happen that way. But if we, we have the vision instead and we kind of let go of the like exactly how we're gonna be, the how we're gonna get there. And we just kind of we're like, we know where we're going, but how are we gonna do it?
How it's gonna happen, like how it'll [00:10:00] unfold when it'll unfold if we kinda like let go of that a little bit. It just becomes so much more. Joyful and like playful and like more open and just like, okay. So for me, like that's been so helpful is just being like, I know that this is gonna happen at some point in my future.
And then it happened like the next month or like two months later, something. It was like, oh wow, okay, here we go. Like I almost hadn't expect, it wasn't like, okay, it has to be this month. It has to be this month. Which it definitely was like the first time around like a few years ago, it was like, I know it's gonna happen.
It was almost just like this is happening. Now I can almost like, enjoy my life as is now. And there was certain things, you know, it was like when I wasn't pregnant, I was like, okay, what are the things I can do now? And I'm gonna go do these things.
I was like, right, we're gonna go in the sauna. Like, let's do these things. And it's just thinking about. How can I make the most on the journey? For me, it was like on the journey to becoming pregnant. How can I make the most of not being pregnant and just enjoy that and then I'll make the most of being pregnant, like when that [00:11:00] actually happens as well.
So it's like, again, enjoying the whole process. Like, and I guess I did this with the house as well. It was like when I am. Not in the house that like we wanted to be in. How can I just like enjoy the process of being in the house that we are in now? The one that we were renting, it's like what are the things that are like amazing and fun and easy about like where we live and how we live And things are just different.
It's like simple and it's whatever like works. And it's thinking about that with like on the road to the pregnancy as well. It's like actually just making the most of not being pregnant and then making the most of being pregnant as well.
I think the other, like, the other really interesting bit, I, I did a podcast episode on this, which was like, I think I was gonna call it goal Grief or something. I don't think I actually called it that. I can't remember what I called it. But it's like when oftentimes when we. We're working towards these goals, but we know that's what we [00:12:00] want.
Like we know that that's what we want. There's still like a letting go process. There's still a like identity letting go. There's still like our brain is wired for survival and like the familiar and staying safe, not necessarily for change and for newness and for things being different and for the unknown and things we've not done before.
And uncertainty. That stuff, our brain's like, ugh, and can freak out a little bit. So oftentimes when we create our goal, so like then suddenly our brain can kind of freak out and we're a bit like, ah. And it was so interesting noticing it like earlier this year, I couldn't really fully talk about it in the podcast.
Like I wasn't ready to say about my pregnancy. Yeah. I just wanted to make sure like it was good. It was, everything was all good. And here we are like a good few months in. And it was so interesting. It was like. This is what I want, like this is what I have wanted and been working towards and like imagined, like for my life.
And yet [00:13:00] there was so much like sadness and grief around it as well. Mainly what was coming up was like how my relationship with like my son would change and it was like I was really tired and he was having to like, let mummy rest and let mummy sleep. And he didn't, he didn't know what was going on. We, we waited a while to tell him as well and.
It was like, oh, this is different. It's gonna be different now. And it was almost like grieving, even though like every bit of my body like wanted to be pregnant, and it was something I'd been like, I know this is happening. I know I really want this. When I actually was pregnant, it was like. Oh no, like everything's gonna change.
My relationship with hims gonna change. I'm not gonna have as much like time one-on-one with him. Like he's gonna have to learn to share our attention, like all of these things. Again, it's like my brain was just doing as brains do. It was going to the worst case. It was just like going to the worst case again and again and again.
And all it could see was all of the like bad things that were gonna happen with like. [00:14:00] Another baby, and I know that I did this with my first pregnancy as well, was imagining like how it would change things for the worse and I just could not imagine how it would actually change things for the better.
And so I allowed myself to just like be with the sadness and again, it's this like loss of a future that you imagine, which is like our life that we had at the moment. It was just like so amazing in this like little three unit and well, four with our dog and it was like, this is just so good. And then it's like the uncertainty, like I don't know how things are gonna be different, what's gonna change?
And our brain automatically where it doesn't know something, it's gonna go to the worst case and it's gonna be like, things are gonna change for the worst and this is gonna happen and this is gonna happen. And that's like all I could think about. And so even just knowing like whatever goal you're working towards, like when you actually create the goal, when you actually like achieve it, or you're almost there, obviously allowing yourself to sink into it, but noticing that like it's so normal that it's probably gonna come up.
That there's like a sadness. It's almost like a nostalgia for what has [00:15:00] been like, you're not the person working towards the goal anymore. It's like you now have it. You're not the, and like for me it was like the nostalgia for how our relationship had been and like how things had been. It's like that's gonna actually change now in the future.
I don't actually feel that way as much now. I think I've done a lot of work on imagining like the best case and imagining their relationship and like how we're all gonna like get closer and like hang out together and, and just kinda like what happened with. Our dog. And like when Flynn arrived it was like, oh no.
Like it's gonna be so different. And actually what I hadn't imagined was their relationship and like him throwing a ball for her and then like running around in the forest together and him like throwing pine cones for her. It's like, oh, that is really fun. Or them like snuggled on the over him, like cuddling or being like, I love maple.
It's like, oh, so cute. And so it's just imagining, it's like, okay, there are the best case. Elements of this as well, but like my brain just almost couldn't see them. It was like, huh, change, everything's differently. Uncertainty. I'll fill in the uncertainty with the worst case and like [00:16:00] how bad it's gonna be.
And I, I just couldn't even like see the best case. And so again, like part of what I've been going through, like I've been holding the vision and I'm still holding the vision of having a healthy baby. And I'm also holding the vision of like how that's gonna be, not just like the baby, but like how we're gonna be as a family and just.
Again, it's like getting really clear on like what it is I want and how I want that, like the dynamic to be how I want our relationships to be and like what I want that to be like, and just spending time imagining it now because again, our brain doesn't know the difference between real and imagined. So when we are like imagining something, we are feeling as if it's already happened, and so we're priming our subconscious and priming like our whole life to be working towards that thing as well.
So.
This is, sorry, I've like totally lost my train of thought. This is a slightly more ramble. I didn't have my like five things I learned. I was just like, I'm gonna go in and chat about like some musings and like things I've been thinking about. And this is a little bit more of a different [00:17:00] episode than last week's one, which was very much like five things I'm gonna talk about.
And here we go. This is more like some musings, and here we are and this is what I've got. And so I'd like lost my train of thought there, but just knowing that any goal that you're working towards, that you've created, or even if you're working towards like. Self-doubt is normal. Fear is normal. Going to the worst case is normal.
Like it's just your brain doing what it does. And then when you have the tools, which again is why I like teach my clients, do coaching is like to be able to see it as like, oh, that's what my brain's doing. And be able to bring it back and focus on like the best case and imagining it's already happened and like living into that best case and just celebrating all of the wins along the way.
And I think that that's been a huge part of it as well, is just. Any win along the way. And even, I was just thinking now some other things that really helped, like when I was, had had the miscarriages and was like, okay, what is really [00:18:00] important for this year? And for me it was like the two biggies who were.
The nature house, which I talked about in the last episode, and a healthy baby, and like literally it was like, yes, there's other things that are important would be really fun, but like those are the, like they are the top two of course, like my health, like family health, like all of that stuff as well. But like in terms of the things that we didn't have at the start of the year, and both were like on the vision board.
It's so fun. I put like a picture of me in. I took like when I was like super pregnant with Flynn in like a hotel mirror and like we were down in Edinburgh a few weeks ago and Luke was doing a talk and I had the same dress on I was wearing when I, in that picture, I was super pregnant with Flynn and like I turned sideways and took a picture and it was like in a hotel mirror and it was like, this is so fun.
This was like the vision board on my phone and now I have a picture in my phone that like literally is the same that I've been imagining and just like imagining me like being in that dress and like having that picture and. [00:19:00] It's so fun. Sorry, I've totally got the hiccups with all my chocolate. Um, and, and so it's like those were the two, like really, really big.
It was like, if these two things happen this year, it'd be freaking amazing. And like, obviously other stuff as well, like having adventures and like connection and like, like helping my clients create amazing results. Like all of that was really important as well. The two like kind of personal life things were those two and I.
Yeah, when I have had like the three miscarriages and like I made a decision, and I do this quite a lot, like if I find that maybe there's bits of my life that are feeling full or I'm kind of expending energy where I'm like, actually I need the energy to go into this other stuff. That's really important right now.
Like priorities are shifting. I made a decision to let a few things go. and, and the question I asked myself that might be helpful for [00:20:00] you as well, if there's like goals that you're working towards, big goal that you're working towards.
Also asking yourself, it's like, okay, so I'm focusing on this. What am I letting go of? So even just asking yourself that now, like write it down like you have your goal, you have your vision. What do you wanna let go of? Because it's so easy. We can be like having as humans, certainly me, maybe some, some humans where it's like, oh, I can do this and this and this and this.
And of course we can all do multiple things and like hold multiple possibilities and hold like multiple goals that we're working towards a hundred percent. Like it could be very easy to be like, it needs to be baby or house, like one of them. And it's like, no, I can do baby and house. Like for sure. But that gets to the point where there's other things, it's like.
And I can do this, but I can't do and this and this and this and this and this. And so it's really deciding like again, it's getting clear what is important to you, like what is your vision and what are you letting go of? And so for me, I actually like let go of a few of these things that I'd committed to and said yes to.
I [00:21:00] was like, I just need to focus on my own health and like rest and just give myself the space. And I have found so many times, like in my life where when I have. Let go of something that's maybe not fully aligned with like the top priorities. And it's just, it's like this is an extra, like I'm letting go of this, like the energy, the flow, like things have just happened so much more quickly.
It's like if you, what did we, there was like a really random example of this. Oh, that was it. We had this like horrible, so we had a, she doesn't use it anymore, but like we had a crate for her that she would sleep in. And it was useful when we first had, like our son, if she needed a bit of space, she could kind of go in there.
It had her bed. It was like all nice and cozy for her and we don't really use it anymore. But at one point we had this like horrible crate bed thing and like it had been lovely, but she like dug at it and like it just, it was a bit stinky and like ripped and it was [00:22:00] just, it looked like horrible and.
We kept being like, oh, I can't get rid of it because we don't like, it's like we don't have another, we can't get rid of it until we have another one. And then, I dunno if I'd like read a book or heard something about this. Like, no, when you let go of something that's not like quite right or not fully aligned, it can be like an object in your house or it can be a commitment that you've said yes to,
whatever it is. Something that's like not quite right that you're like, I know this isn't quite right, but like a, again, kind of like the house, um, episode last year. Last year, oh my God, I need to sit down like this episode last week, which was recorded like 20 minutes ago. Um, like saying, we said no to two, what would be on paper, like amazing houses because it was like, they're not quite right and that created space for.
The house we actually wanted to come along and it's the same. It's like when you let go of something that's not quite right, like having something, whether it's in our space, in our life that we're spending time on, that we're [00:23:00] spending energy on it, like creates this like energetic exchange. It's like we're thinking about it or if it's in our house, we're seeing it.
It's like we're, it's, it's like coming into our consciousness and it's using up our energy. It's using up our attention. It's using up our. Like resources, basically that's taking us away from where we actually wanna go, so, so it was like this dog bed was like this crate bed was the same. It's like, no. And I was like, no, we need to get rid of it.
And then once there is that space, we will find the perfect thing to. Fill it basically, rather than like waiting, having this horrible thing there. They were like, Ugh. Every time we go past it and then trying to like go and find something else. This is not what I thought I would tell about in this podcast episode, by the way, but here we are.
And it was amazing. It was like one of those like random examples where we got rid of it and almost there was a space there, so we put like a bit of a blanket in. And then it was suddenly like, oh, we have her, I [00:24:00] can't remember why we had had it and it was either up in the loft or in the like shed or something and it was this like really nice crate bed.
And I dunno why we'd, maybe the other one was a basket and then we'd put it in the crate or something. I can't even remember. But we actually had like a really nice like. Plush, super comfy, like crate bed. We just got rid of it. 'cause we'd put this other one like in the crate and it was like, oh, we'd made the space.
She had a blanket and it was all good. And then it was like, oh, we actually already have something that like works absolutely perfectly. And literally that's been in her her crate for the last like few years since we got rid of that one. So it's the same with anything. And again, with this like I knew I needed to free up energy for.
Focusing on what was really important, which was like house and baby. And so I let go of things and I said no to things and no to commitments. And I just created that space to be like, this is what I'm focusing on. So even thinking about that for you, like again, coming back to what are your, what are those goals?
What is it [00:25:00] that's really, really important to you? And is there something that's maybe you're kind of hanging onto a bit? That's using energy, that's using emotional energy, that's using physical energy, any kind of energy that's not, that you're not like, oh, this is moving me where I want to go, but it's kind of keeping you like a bit, or you look something in your house, you walk past and you're like.
Oh, I don't really like that. But we don't have something else. It's like get rid of it. Like, it's amazing what happens when you actually just let go of the things you're like, I don't need this anymore. Whether it's stuff, whether it's commitments, whatever the thing is, like just like actually it's time to let this go.
And the like, the energy, it frees up the head space to then put into what it is that you actually want to create, whatever your goal is. And that's something that I find has been, was really, really helpful. And just, it was almost this like. I could feel the weight lifting and like I knew that I was spending all this time and energy on this thing.
I was like, I need to spend this time and energy resting and [00:26:00] actually, and visualizing and like going on walks and that is what is important for me right now. And just having the courage to say that even though it's like the thing was really fun or it was really this or it was whatever, and it could be like I'm letting people down.
I had all of that and still it was like, I know that this is what I need. I'm gonna have that uncomfortable conversation and just like actually do it. That was another thing that helped. Anyway, I think I'm running outta steam here. Two back-to-back podcasts, first one's in a while and that is where I'm at.
But maybe I'll sit down for the next ones. Like, I'm gonna go sit down, I'm gonna go sit in the grass. Maybe I'll have another chocolate. I dunno how many that is today, but we're all good. Um, but I just wanna say thank you so much for listening and thank you for being on this journey. Oh, no.
Oh no, we're good. Okay, we're good. The microphone had like changed and now it's changed back. Um, thank you for being on this journey with me and Oh yeah, the final [00:27:00] piece. So where are we now? We're in October now. I am gonna be on maternity leave as of like, oh, what was the actual date? I think it's like 18th of December.
Um, let me actually see what the date is. Whatever. Oh gosh. Do I have my phone here? I do have my phone anyway. Say mid-December. I'm gonna be on mat leave, um, into next year. So I am not currently taking on any new one-on-one clients in terms of like normally work for clients for six months. I'm not doing any of that if like my existing clients, if they wanna continue on.
Until December they can and like can it continue on and like do ad hoc or like a roll kind of rolling monthly package. Like that's all good if you want to do this work to even start this work to do some of this work. Coming into next year, into 2026, getting your vision sorted, like really getting clear, like what your goals are, where you wanna be, and also what's standing in the way, and actually [00:28:00] releasing some of these things and helping you actually take like, not just be like, oh, I'd love to do this, I'd be so cool, but like, oh, I'm actually doing it now.
And like stepping into that person and taking that action and moving these things forward. Basically using a lot of the tools I've talked about the last couple days actually embodying it and like leaning into that trust and like knowing that. This is happening and that you're creating that future that you want those scary goals, like whatever they are.
Obviously we're October now, that's still like two months. So reach out, like drop me a message and we can do either like one-off sessions, not like one-off, but like if you wanna book like a few of them, whatever works for you. But like if you're kinda like, ugh. I know that like, come 2026, I really, really wanna be like stepping up my, my goals and like stepping up where I'm changing my life.
Like I know there's like areas that I wanna shift and I wanna do this work and like learn these tools to be able to believe that this is possible for me and expand into new identity and catch my brain [00:29:00] when it's trying to like self-sabotage or pull me back and, and all of these things, like if that is, if you're feeling called to do that.
Reach out and we can do a few sessions between now and Christmas or whatever feels good for you. And then you will have a bunch of the tools and you can apply them next year. There's also some other fun things that I'm planning over the next couple months, so do watch this space and I will make sure that I announce them on here as well.
And yeah, in terms of the podcast, I really like, I have this vision now where I'm like, maybe I take a bit of a pause, but like actually I really, I almost want to like document. The journey and what I'm learning like on my mat leave. So I dunno if it would be like a weekly thing of like, here's how things are going in real time, or if it would be a biweekly thing, or maybe I'll have a pause and then like, start again.
I'm not really sure, but I'm feeling called at the moment when I have energy and I've had some chocolate to continue the podcasting, at least for some of the mat leave, or at least [00:30:00] in a like. Slightly different way or however that's gonna go. I, I'm feeling like that would be really fun and like a really nice creative outlet when a lot of stuff's like feeding and nappies and sling walks and whatever else is gonna, is gonna appear in January.
But I might take a little bit of, bit of a pause and just with recovery and like all that kinda stuff as well. So I'm not quite sure yet, but for now, until, for the next few months, until December and maybe into like early January as well. There's definitely gonna be podcasts, and I have so many fun things coming up for you.
I'm so excited, and yet if you wanna take this work deeper and work with me until December. Drop me a message like get in touch on Instagram, reach out. Like, now is your time. It's like the perfect time to like prime your mind, get all this stuff like in place. So like when 2026 hits is like literally gonna be your most amazing year yet and you can be like, look at the end of the year and be like, whoa is so different.
Like I feel that now. Like I did this vision boarding workshop at the start of the year. I'm doing one actually at the end of November, And it is crazy to look [00:31:00] at the vision board now, and I was putting things on it that I was like. I have no idea how this is actually gonna happen, but like it would be so freaking cool if this was my life by the end of the year and it's October and this is literally like my life and it is wild how this stuff.
It is like I know it works and I teach it to my clients and it works for them and like it's worked for me for years and yet every time I'm like, this is so crazy. Like I had this idea and I was like, this would be really cool. Wrote it down, find a picture, stuck it. Imagine like imagined it like then do any, it is like, I obviously did stuff, but it's not like I did anything.
I'm not like actively going out and forcing stuff and this, it's like. I'm just imagining it and the ideas come, then I follow the idea and then something else comes and something else comes and it's like, it is crazy and just amazing in the best way. So if you're like, I wanna learn all these tools too, get in [00:32:00] touch.
It's so fun. Honestly, this work will change your life in like the best way. And the fun thing is you can like apply it to literally anything to. Anything like, there's so many, I mean, I could talk about like past scary goals and I guess I have a little bit on the podcast and I'm gonna talk a bit more about like expedition stuff as well, like, and some of the mindsets for that.
it is the most fun and like literally you can apply this work to anything, which also is so fun as well. It's like whatever the goal is, you learn the tools for like that goal and then you can like literally put it to any bit of your life and, ugh, it just makes life so fun. I think that's the, the bit I love most about this work is like.
Just enjoy. Like it just makes the day to day just so much more enjoyable. Yes, of course. Creating the goals are really fun. It's so amazing being in this house. It's like I am beyond grateful and like so chuffed to be pregnant. I'm just like, this is amazing. And even while we were getting here, I was enjoying the process as well.
And even when I wasn't pregnant, I was like enjoying the process and like that whole part of it [00:33:00] as well. It's like. Yeah, it's really fun right now, but like it's been fun the whole way along. Not all the time. It's been really freaking hard and it's been sad and it's been like feeling impatient and frustrated and like all of this stuff because I'm human, but like it has just made the journey so much more enjoyable and like, like that.
Like if you think about it, that's literally all we have or else what I used to do, it's like good one thing to the next, to the next, and then it's like you just keep doing that and then you reach the end of your life. You're like. I've done all the things, but I didn't enjoy them because I didn't like stop or pause to like fully appreciate where I was in that moment.
And it's the same. It's like if you don't appreciate your life exactly as it is right now, and like even if you don't have the goal, even if you're still working towards it, even if you're in the middle of grief and loss and heartache and whatever's going on, if you can still love yourself and love that life right now.
That's how you then love the life when you actually build it. Because at some point, even [00:34:00] whatever you're going through right now, you are still living a life that you dreamed about at one point. Whether whatever it is, whether it's like the house, the partner, the job, the whatever it is, the relationship, the friend group, like all of that at one point you dreamed about and now you have, and it's like if you don't, if you can't appreciate it as you go and the life you have right now, even if it's you're still working towards something else.
Then you won't appreciate it when you actually get there. So it's all starts with just like loving and appreciating where you are now, even if it's not ultimately where you wanna be. Okay. I hope that rambling episode was helpful in some way. It's so nice to be back and it's so nice to just like have a chat and share what's on my mind, and I'm so excited to continue to do that over the next few months and share some other.
Insights and musings and wisdoms and some fun things happening as well. Okay. Wow. Love you guys so much. Thank you so much for listening as always, and I'll catch you next time. Have an amazing week, ahead, and let's see you next time. Bye.
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